In order to properly handle an observe cancellation of a client, the server has to keep track of the notification MIDs (to be able to match an RST to a notification), see [RFC7641, 3.6 Cancellation](https://www.rfc-editor.org/rfc/rfc7641.html#section-3.6) for mor details. An alternative to this would be to make either the client send an explicit observe deregister request, or make the server send the next notification via CON (which hten allows matching of the RST due to the CON state).
This splits the _find_req_memo util function into multiple variants that match on different things. This is done in preparation of a feature that has to find a request based on a token value, without creating an artificial pdu for that. A nice side effect is that it also makes the calls to the find functions a bit more readable by not relying on an anonymous bool input.
19487: nanocoap: implement extended tokens (RFC 8974) r=benpicco a=benpicco
19808: boards: add ESP32-S3-USB-OTG support r=benpicco a=gschorcht
### Contribution description
This PR provides the support for the [ESP32-S3-USB-OTG](https://docs.espressif.com/projects/espressif-esp-dev-kits/en/latest/esp32s3/esp32-s3-usb-otg/user_guide.html) board.
The SD card can only be used in SPI mode at the moment. As soon as PR #19786 is merged, the SD/MMC support can be enabled and the SD card can then be used in SD mode with 4-bit data bus width.
The display uses uses the ST7789 driver IC that is compatible with the ST7735. For that purpose the ST7735 driver is extended by a pseudomodule definition `st7789` for the ST7789 which is enabled by the board and enables automatically the `st7789` (e57c48a33ee2a869c15603788e5306ba066f91cf). Vise versa, board's `Makefile.dep` enables automatically the `st7789` pseudomodule if the `st7735` is used. The pseudomodule `st7789` is just used to increase the upper limit for supported lines. This change is also part of PR #19807.
~The PR includes a very small documentation fix for ESP32-S3-DevKit board that was noticed during the development of this board definition (1155b6ac1b8efa39d8a0bd7150e602095159fdc1).~
### Testing procedure
The board has been tested with all basic tests for supported hardware including `tests/driver/st3375`:
- [x] tests/drivers/st3375
- [x] tests/periph/gpio
- [x] tests/periph/pwm
- [x] tests/periph/spi
- [x] tests/periph/uart
- [x] tests/sys/usbus_cdc_ecm
### Issues/PRs references
Co-authored-by: Benjamin Valentin <benpicco@beuth-hochschule.de>
Co-authored-by: Gunar Schorcht <gunar@schorcht.net>
